We went to a memorial service tonight for a man that I had met once, but never really knew.  It was the most inspirational and moving memorial service I’ve ever attended.  It was the type of service that makes me really feel like I missed out on knowing such a Godly man.  He was a pastor, shepherd, mentor and friend to many.  From the stories told by those that knew him best, it was clear that he was truly a man after God’s own heart.  He loved people.  He gave much of himself.  He pastored multiple churches including ones in New York and Pennsylvania.  And everywhere that he’s been, he’s left a scorched trail of changed lives.

Jeff Gowesky was diagnosed in his 50’s with Alzheimer’s.  Then about 3 years later, he was re-diagnosed with a more rare disease called Lewy Body Demensia which is a progressive brain disease.  It had a much more rapid progression, and he went home on Tuesday to be with Jesus.  You can read about his last days here on the family journal.  His son Peter (Peter’s Blog) spoke at the memorial service tonight, and what he said really made me re-evaluate not only what kind of father I am, but how I’m spending the time God has granted me here in this body.  I have a tendency to just be busy, always busy, with stuff.  What good is that really going to do for me when I get to the end of my life.  Peter said that one of the things he learned from his father was that LOVE is spelt “T-I-M-E”.  I truly believe that.  What does my use of time say about what or who I love?  I’ve decided to make changes in my life.  I miss the days where I actually had time to spend ministering to people.  Lately, I haven’t had much time for others.

Thank you Jeff for the amazing example you are to those whose lives you have crossed.  And thank you Peter, Heidi, and others who have shared Jeff’s life with me.  Even though I never knew Jeff Gowesky, I now feel as if I do.